 Our
Party
Our swinger's parties were created to provide an atmosphere
where open minded adults can get together, and if they wish,
share the experience and the pleasures of being with others
in a safe and uninhibited friendly environment.
We aim to create somewhat of an adult's only, non-judgemental
fantasy world, where mature adults can depart from the rigors
of everyday life for an evening, and relax amongst others
who enjoy being part of this unique lifestyle.
The possibility of living out some of those fantasies, which
many of us can only talk about in the confines of our own
bedrooms, can become a reality in ways only limited by one's
imagination or levels of inhibition.
Watching those naughty movies can become all very un-entertaining,
after seeing it all happen in real life, or even being part
of the real thing.
This is the setting we strive to achieve each time we organise
one of our parties, but in the end it's up to you to help
make it happen!
Our Venue
Utilizing a spacious private home on a large secluded property
located in Melbournes' South Eastern Suburbs, a direct 30
to 40 minute drive from the city centre.
Parking is not a problem as there is ample space inside our
property providing for security and discretion.
Some of the facilities that are available at our swingers
parties include:
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Three quarter size pool table: For those not so
serious pool competitions - House rules - twice around
the table naked if no balls down! (Just joking) BYO table
rules.
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Private and open playrooms: For big (adult) kids!
Complete with party hats - (not for your head!), lube
- (not for greasing your car with!), and of course big
soft mats - (usually used for sleeping on!)
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Video and relaxation lounge area: For those who
need to work themselves up to being adventurous, but if
you just want to watch video's that's up to you, (keep
in mind you can do that at home!).
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Large heated spa pool: For those who want to
mix their drinks, or just like it hot and wet! (And yes
we do drain and clean it before and after every party
night!)
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Open fireplace: For the cooler nights - (we don't
want those bare bits freezing up and dropping off, do
we!)
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Massage table: For those that need a bit of a
rub down, or up! - (Not necessarily just for therapeutic
purposes!)
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What Happens
Guests arrive at between 9.00pm and 10.00pm and pay their
entry fee at the door. Then after a brief tour they are shown
to a room where they change into something a little more comfortable,
or to be more precise, a little less covered up (erotic
dress).
 Getting
to know others is usually the protocol for the first part
of the evening overa drink, and unwinding whilst lounging
in front of an open fire, leaving the rigors of every day
life, and hopefully some of those inhabitation's at the door!
Guests can become acquainted in a relaxed atmosphere by either
playing pool or watching naughty movies. They might get a
bit more familiar with each other, by taking a dip in our
large spa, (always a good ice breaker!) or maybe in
other ways...
At times those little pool competitions can turn into something
a bit more interesting, our female guests discovering ways
to win the game every time by somewhat distracting their male
competitors, and sometimes, on the odd occasion during the
course of some evenings, a few guests may decide to engage
in some erotic dancing which also can get very interesting!
After a bit of social intercourse, (Yes I spelt it correctly)
some of our guests tend to get a little more playful and may
take things into other areas such as open or private area's,
whilst others might kick back and relax a little more or even
watch any activities that may be developing in those open
area's.
After a bit of chin wagging and playtime most of our guests
generally get a little bit hungry (for food that is) although
others may have had a nibble or two already, so we serve up
a few hot snacks (around midnight).
The rest of the evening can get a bit more interesting
for some, whilst others may relax with some new found friends,
eventually winding up the night around 2.00am, or earlier
if they wish and heading for home with hopefully a very enjoyable
evening behind them.
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The Party Night
Often we find ourselves being asked questions like; we are
first timers or new to the scene so what do we do? How do
we start? What age are most people? What do people look like,
etc. etc. etc.?
There are so many questions with many more answers so I will
attempt to respond to a few in a more general way.
If it's your first time at a swinger's party, treat it as
a social night, as there is definitely no obligation to
participate in anything, it is usually best to get to
know people, watch how it all works, and if then you wish
to take things a little further with them, just ask politely.
To ask is the best policy, if you don't ask, or try to dive
right on in, you will most likely get a knock back, or worse.
Keep in mind every swinger was a first-timer at some stage
so the more experienced one's should know how you feel.
We find most of the people that attend our parties to be
between the age of 20 to about 50 years young, keeping in
mind that this is an adults only function, you won't
find anyone under 18 years of age at our parties.
When people ask us what do people look like we never know
until they arrive, as you know we cannot see you on the phone.
Most people generally look at people for there personality
more than there looks or age as we believe that personality
comes first, you are not going to say to them how old are
you before you join them in the activities.
A quick note about age and looks: If you are
in your twenties, don't judge people in their forties as being
too old for you, or vice versa, and it probably wouldn't be
a good idea to consider people larger than yourselves as being
too fat, as they then may look at you as being too thin, (yes
believe it).
In other words, don't judge a book by its cover as if looks
only is what your after, don't bother going to a swinger's
party! Swinger's parties are not like a shop where you pick
whatever you want! If you can get a grasp on this, you will
have a lot more fun! Trust me on this one!
 In
a party atmosphere people tend to be themselves, they are
not trying to be better than any one else, in other words
you don't have to be a body beautiful to come to these parties,
just be your self. If someone has something bad to say to
you then they are the wrong type of person at these parties.
Most of the questions can be answered apart from the occasional
one like, "we are a couple looking for a single bi female,
must be blonde, 20 years old, slim and very attractive, big
tits, etc. etc".
Or maybe, "I am a single guy and I am looking for a partner
to come to your party with me, can you organize someone for
me?"
If this is the type of questions that we get asked, don't
get offended if you receive an answer similar to, "dream
on buddy!"
On writing the above, I was hoping to include a lot more
info on the swinging scene in general as well, but
decided that for you experienced swingers, it would probably
bore you to tears, if this lot hasn't already.
For you first time swingers that would like more information
on the typical etiquette of swinging, there is a very informative
article written by Brian Williams, a well-known figure in
the swinging community (Vixen - Australian Swingers Contacts
Magazine and the Saints and Sinners erotic fancy dress ball).
This article, although slightly lengthy (yes, longer than
this page), is well worth reading as it covers many aspects
of the scene.
Visit - www.vixen.com.au
and go to (About Swinging) and then click on (read the Guide
to Swinging).
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The
Early Days
Established in 1997, our parties where first held fortnightly.
The first night we had a grand total of 8 people. It was a
huge night! Oh well, I suppose it happens to all new parties.
It actually turned out to be a good night! After the next
few parties we decided to hire a mobile spa. That definitely
helped, although after about 12 months it started to hurt,
the back pocket that is. We eventually bought our own.
 The
parties steadily grew in size from that baby first night to
turnouts of about 30 to 50 people, which lead us to run them
weekly on both Friday and Saturday nights.
The first New Years Eve was an interesting night; it was
the first New Years Eve at home, without the family, but boy,
was it worth it.
We started off with a mid afternoon erotic dress, (or nude)
B.B.Q followed on with the party, mind you we didn't get a
lot of people, as few knew we were running a swingers party
that night. During the evening, before the New Year came around,
we all decided to play a game of strip pool, (if your ball
is pocketed, you strip naked), of course everyone eventually
lost, (or won, if you think of it that way).
As everyone was now nude, we all piled in the spa, (the spa
was big but it was still a bloody tight squeeze), and waited
for the count down to midnight on the radio, and wished everyone
a happy new year in the spa. After that, well you know what
would have happened; use your imagination!
Another special night was our first birthday party. Good
night, sorry, "great" night!
We decided to have a free entry fancy dress night for our
regular guests.
We ended up with about 50 people, wearing various costumes
ranging from a bride with just a vial and her bridal lingerie,
to a vampire with just a cape and G-string.
 Other
guests came in bondage outfits or what ever they could think
of. We had prizes on the night, door prize, best female and
best male costumes and other prizes.
Of course the bride won the best female and the vampire, the
best male.
If you, the persons mentioned read this, and you know who
you are, we hope you still remember that excellent night!
Our second birthday party was also a success. The themes
for the night was leather, chain, PVC or latex, and let your
bits hang out, yes boobs as well!
Everyone made a great effort, mind you, many phoned us for
some clue of what to wear. Some made their own costumes and
some even went out and bought something new!
One girl actually hired her costume, but also made a second
one to wear when she got tired of the first, heavy leather
outfit. A big effort was made by all. Thanks everyone!
The third year, no birthday party, as we had an addition
to our family at that time, but still the weekly parties kept
on going, most of our regs didn't want us to close temporarily
whilst we were in baby mode, so they offered to help us run
them.
Just a short note to say THANKS to all
those who helped us at that time, and to those, and the many
others who also have helped us on many an occasion.
You know who you are! We won't forget!
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These
Days
Nowadays we are still running weekly parties every Friday
and Saturday night, with the numbers ranging between about
20 to 50 people which suit's us fine.
We have noticed one thing though, it's not the amount of people
that makes a good party, it's the people themselves or rather
the personality of the people that seems to count the most.
Sometimes people ask us which is the best night, Friday or
Saturday?
That is a very hard question to answer, as we wish we knew
that ourselves. If we found there was any difference between
the two nights we would certainly tell you.
If after a few years of running these parties we had noticed
any set pattern that developed due to either, which night,
the time of year, weather conditions, Etc., we would have
figured it out by now!
One thing I can say is that no matter which night you turn
up, or how often you might come, you would always find it
to be a different type of night each time.
After having a few special fancy erotic dress or theme nights
from time to time, we have noticed a need for more of these
on a regular basis and hence decided to get our act together
and organize these on a regular basis.
See our Theme
Nights page for more info on these, and other specialty
type nights we may run in the near future.
We quite often find ourselves even celebrating a guest's
birthday now and then, as after attending a few of our swingers
parties, we managed to get to know them well enough to find
out when their birthday was and do something about it.
We still seem to get a good mix of people most nights, people
from all walks of life, some younger, some older, some a little
shy and then some you just can't keep away, not that we want
to, and the balance of regular and first time guests has been
working out well also.
And then there's the first timer's that turn up and tell
us they might just watch and learn for their first evening,
and end up getting so carried away, that when they finally
come up for air, they say, "where is everyone and what
time is it? Oh shit, we forgot about our baby sitters!"
At least we know they had a good night and quietly say to
ourselves, yep, they'll be back!
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